is there anyone who can connect me with my mother who died oct. 29th, 1993. it's been 15 years and i've never felt her presence. it's like she just disapeared. i've only dreamt of her a couple of times and she never says anything to me. i'm usually chasing her, calling for her begging her to stop running from me, but all i see is her back, her running in a night gown around corners. she has never given me any sign or any feeling of comfort. why? i'm a little upset that she hasn't made an effort to contact me. i've been visited by other loved ones who've passed. can they choose? i don't understand. if i died and left my children behind, i'd make sure they new i was with them. why doesn't she? i also have had two dreams where she faked her death and my brother and i find the house she's living in. she's not home, but we're searching through the refridgerator and her drawers to see what she's been doing. i woke up angry and i felt betrayed. abandoned i guess. i'd really like to try to contact her. can anyone help? i've tried so many times to talk out loud to her, but i get nothing. not a feeling of her presence or anything. it's like she doesn't exist or something. i feel she's so far away.
Hi, I am very touched by your posting. I am no expert on this, but my impression is that your mom, who was a very sweet and innocent person, went straight to heaven. Not everyone goes straight to heaven; some have unresolved issues, karma to work out, or are given a "job" to do here on earth. I can relate to your question, as I have lost people I have loved and not sensed them ever coming around. I don't take it personally, as I know they haved moved on. OR, she does come around and watches you but does not wasnt to interfere with your choices, therfore does not leave any obvious signs. I bet you do hear from her though, and maybe the lesson in this is patience.
hehe! you've posted a few times about your mother. Actually, your mother is doing wonderfully on the other side! She tells me that she never ran around in a night gown though;she wouldn't try to scare you like that. It seemed to be like a fairly easy transition for your mother. Reminds me a bit of an airport-a little effort, but in and out in a relatively decent amount of time. She's watching over you at the moment. Your mother seems like a warm, benevolent person. She refers to the two of you as "sisters". i don't believe she's betrayed you once, so why would she do it now?
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